This afternoon I experienced the following: while driving home through busy traffic I passed under a railway bridge, at which point traffic from another lane attempted to filter into mine. I had the opportunity to wait, and allow a car to filter in. However, I kept driving, and the car behind me waited, allowing the other driver into the main lane. Then I began wondering about whether providing someone else with the opportunity to perform a 'good' act (good here understood as referring to an act that is arguably beneficial to at least one other person, and does not cause harm to anyone) is itself a good act.
Put more generally (and in the form of a question), if in performing an act that is detrimental to another we allow a third person the opportunity to perform a beneficial act where they would not otherwise have been able, can our first act be seen in a more positive light, or is still to be considered negatively?
Looks to me as if you were rude and the guy behind you was polite. I really don't think there is any positive value added to a negative act if it happens to result in--indeed, even if it can predictably lead or contribute to--some other agent being given the chance (and taking it) to do something good. If I shoot you while we are standing near a paramedic, whom I have every reason to believe will leap to your aid, does that make my shooting you a good thing, or somehow positive? So I am inclined to give the guy behind you credit...and that is all the credit to be given in the case you describe. In the meantime, you might think about who "owns" the road. If it isn't you, maybe you would do well to share it?
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