Is love selfish?
I cannot be in a relationship because I think I have discovered that love is selfish. Consider my argument.
Premises: I choose not to be selfish. I choose to reason logically.
What does it mean to love? Does it mean satisfying your wants more than those of your lover, or the other way round?
IF it means satisfying the wants of your lover more than your own, then you would react in the following way:
If your lover deserts you willingly and decides to be with somebody else, you would be happy for your lover and not be jealous (since by being happy for your lover, you are satisfying his/her wants and not opposing them).
On the other hand, IF to love means satisfying your own wants more than those of your lover, then you would react in the following way:
If your lover deserts you willingly and decides to be with somebody else, you would be upset and jealous.
Which way would you react?
Assuming you are upset and jealous, then you are selfish. However, such selfishness is needed for a...
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Dear sirs and madams,
I recently met my cousin, who is a very bright biologist. When she learned that I studied political science and philosophy at university, she asked respectfully me why I would study a self-perpetuating field. I know what my reasons are, but I would be interested in reading what some of the professionals have to say: Why study philosophy? Moreover, why study it since there is an impracticality associated with it? Have you ever gotten any flack from loved ones for philosophizing?
Thank you for your time,
-Justin
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